Sabi nila lahat ng bagay dito sa mundo may kapareha… Kung may kanan, may kaliwa, kung may itaas, may ibaba. At ang bawat isang tao raw ay nilikha para sa isa pang nilikha…
Pero bakit ganun? May makikilala tayo, may makakasama at sa ati’y maghahatid ng ligaya, panandaliang saya… Aakalain mo siya na, tapos sa bandang huli, masasaktan ka lang pala. Maiiwan kang nag-iisa.
Bakit pa kaya hinayaang kayo’y magkita pa, gayung hindi naman pala kayo ang nakatadhana. Sana hindi mo na lang siya nakilala. Sana hindi ka na lang umasa. Sana ‘di mo na lang naramdaman ang sakit, di ba?
Simple lang naman ang ibig kong sabihin…. Na sana ang makilala na lang natin ay yung talagang para naman talaga sa atin. Para wala nang masasaktan di ba? Para wala nang pusong nabibitin at nagdurusa.
Bakit ba kailangan mong mahirapan pa bago matagpuan ang tunay na ligaya? Bakit yung mahal mo, nagmamahal ng iba. Habang yung nagmamahal sayo, patuloy na umaasa. Ayaw mo man siyang saktan, pero wala kang magawa. Sapagkat may hinahanap kang mga bagay na sa kanya'y tunay namang wala.
Sa pag-ibig kasi ang daming natatanga! Marami naman dyang iba, bakit nagpupumilit sa kanya? Palaging ang tanong, "bakit siya pa?" Simple lang naman ang tanong di ba? “Bkit?” Eh bakit nga ba? Ngunit walang may alam ng sagot kundi langit at hindi syensya.
Hay, naku ang buhay talaga! Puno ng pasakit at pagdurusa. Ganun talaga, paano mo masasabing masaya ka, kung di mo naranasang maging malungkot,di ba? Huwag ka nang mag-alala sapagkat hindi ka nag-iisa. Marami kayo dyang patuloy na umaasa. Darating din ang panahon na ipagkakaloob sa’yo ng langit ang tunay na ligaya.
*fyi, post ko to dati dun sa isa ko pang blog..la lang gusto ko lang i-repost dito.
Pero bakit ganun? May makikilala tayo, may makakasama at sa ati’y maghahatid ng ligaya, panandaliang saya… Aakalain mo siya na, tapos sa bandang huli, masasaktan ka lang pala. Maiiwan kang nag-iisa.
Bakit pa kaya hinayaang kayo’y magkita pa, gayung hindi naman pala kayo ang nakatadhana. Sana hindi mo na lang siya nakilala. Sana hindi ka na lang umasa. Sana ‘di mo na lang naramdaman ang sakit, di ba?
Simple lang naman ang ibig kong sabihin…. Na sana ang makilala na lang natin ay yung talagang para naman talaga sa atin. Para wala nang masasaktan di ba? Para wala nang pusong nabibitin at nagdurusa.
Bakit ba kailangan mong mahirapan pa bago matagpuan ang tunay na ligaya? Bakit yung mahal mo, nagmamahal ng iba. Habang yung nagmamahal sayo, patuloy na umaasa. Ayaw mo man siyang saktan, pero wala kang magawa. Sapagkat may hinahanap kang mga bagay na sa kanya'y tunay namang wala.
Sa pag-ibig kasi ang daming natatanga! Marami naman dyang iba, bakit nagpupumilit sa kanya? Palaging ang tanong, "bakit siya pa?" Simple lang naman ang tanong di ba? “Bkit?” Eh bakit nga ba? Ngunit walang may alam ng sagot kundi langit at hindi syensya.
Hay, naku ang buhay talaga! Puno ng pasakit at pagdurusa. Ganun talaga, paano mo masasabing masaya ka, kung di mo naranasang maging malungkot,di ba? Huwag ka nang mag-alala sapagkat hindi ka nag-iisa. Marami kayo dyang patuloy na umaasa. Darating din ang panahon na ipagkakaloob sa’yo ng langit ang tunay na ligaya.
*fyi, post ko to dati dun sa isa ko pang blog..la lang gusto ko lang i-repost dito.
23 comments:
omaygudnes! anong kadramahan na naman ituh?
hoy lukin... inuubos ko lang lahat ng kadramahan sa mundo... para matapos na rin to! masama bang magpost ha! heheheh!
mre ma share ko lang ha .. feeling ko kasi nanalig ka sa jerry mcguire na "you complete me" .. isang malaking kembot lang yun ... kasi pag naghanap ka ng tao to complete you .. what happens pag nagsawa ka na? or kugn nakuha mo na yung bagay which he/she has to offer you kaya feeling mo complete ka pag kasama mo sya? .. mare .. stay single and enjoy being single muna... pag happy and complete ka na by yourself .. nde mo na hahanapin ang ibnag tao to fill the void inside you ... build yourself and eventually, he will come .. choz! .. may sense ba ko??
mare mag lagay ka nga ng tagboard dito .. nahihirapan ako chumika ... hahahah ... kinekembot mo pa ko ... lam ko nmn nde mo binabasa blog ko ... anyways ... basta mre supportado kita sa paghanap ng fute ex .. choz! ... no really kasi parang ang swerte ng guy hu will be with you coz sa blog mo pa lang obvious na u've got so much love ... charity!
huwawa! kadyo..nakakaiyak naman!
ndi ko masyado na nabasa (ang haba kasi e) yung comment ni kadyo pero 1st sentence pa lang agree na ko. iba-iba ang dahilan. imagijin mo kung ndi mo nakilala ung mga wrong ones, kung ndi ka nag-grow dahil sa mga experiences mo, paano kaya kung nandyan na yung ryt one?
bkt mo naman natanong?
5 years 10 years 20 years from now .... matatawa ka na lang dito sa mga sinusulat mo pag binasa mo ulit :) .... tapos sasabihin mo .... mabuti pala naranasan ko ang lahat ng ito :) ...dahil kung hindi ..hindi mo matatagpuan yung tunay na ligaya sa piling ng present love of your life :) ..... kuuuu ..kung magsaalita ako kala mo ang galing galing ko lol!!!!
e tanong ko rin yan sa sarili ko e
toink!!!!!
wahheheehehe inuman na lang tayo!!!!
<==for jaja's a jolly good jologs==>
naman, gusto ko na tuloy malungkot at madepress dahil wala akong pag-ibig.
hay, kelan ka ba dadating? baka naman mainip na ako.
hehe. demanding daw ba.
waaahhh... kasentihan nanaman ititch! hehehe... bakit sino ba yan?
Bakit ba ganyan
ang buhay ng tao
mayro'ng mayaman
may api sa mundo
kapalaran kung hanapin
`di matagpuan
at kung minsa'y lumalapit
nang `di mo alam
o bakit kaya
may ligaya't lumbay
sa pag-ibig
may bigo't tagumpay
`di malaman `di maisip
kung anong kapalaran
sa akin ay naghihintay
okey isa pa! he he he
Nothing feels quite like a broken heart.
It's true.
A broken heart is the single greatest pain you will
ever have to endure, in fact, the most hurt you can
ever imagine: and the one who commits this
emotional crime is not someone you hate; it is not
even someone you dislike. No, because the only
person who is capable of breaking your heart is
the one who holds it precariously in their hands,
the one with whom you have shared your dreams,
your secrets, your fears - the one you love more
than anybody else in the world... and therein lies
the irony.
However, that is the chance you take. Love is all
about risk. If you give your heart to someone else -
as most of us do at one time or another - it is
theirs to do with as they wish. You now have
absolutely no control over it, and whether it
remains intact is up to them.
Heartbreak is an odd kind of pain, because you
are not dying. You are not even sick. For all intents
and purposes you are perfectly fine, yet inside -
where your heart used to be - you hurt so much
that you can't breathe, you can't sleep, and you
can't stop the tears from falling. You may eat too
much; you may not eat at all. Non-smokers light
up; non-drinkers find a bar.
A broken heart is the world's great equalizer,
because it can bring even the strongest man to
his knees.
It happens to the best of us, they say. Time heals
everything, they say. What doesn't kill us can only
make us stronger, they say. And my personal
favorite - it is better to have loved and lost than
never to have loved at all. Yeah, right. BULLSHIT, I
say.
You will listen to any advice you are given - take a
walk, take a holiday, join a gym, get a haircut -
because everybody over the age of consent thinks
they have an Honors Degree in Heartache. Too
much TV!!!
At the end of it all though you won't actually take
any of this armchair psychology seriously,
because you are STUBBORN, and because
nobody else knows what the hell you are going
through anyway. I mean, how could they?
It's your heart that lies bleeding on the floor
next to
you, not theirs. It's your tears. It's your pain for
God's sake!
It's easy to spot someone who has just had their
heart broken. You'll see them out walking
aimlessly, like extras from a zombie flick,
muttering to themselves in a language only they
understand. Every now and then one of them is
run down by a passing truck or bus. Man, LOVE
REALLY IS BLIND! Not that it really matters
anyway. It's survival of the fittest. Nothing
personal.
How long does it take to get over a broken heart?
It's simple really. NEVER. There is no glue to
mend that kind of thing; no bandage, no quick fix.
All you can do is bend down, pick up the pieces,
and hope you have enough there to find a little
happiness once the tears have dried on your
cheeks. Sure, you move on, you go out with other
people, you smile, you laugh, you love again, you
get married, you have two-point-four children, you
collect your pension, YOU DIE. You may very well
have a good life, a great life even - but that break
is ALWAYS there.
There may be days, weeks - months even - when
it doesn't cross your mind at all, but don't go
fooling yourself into thinking the pain has gone.
You have it tucked away along with all your best
kept secrets. You will be on your deathbed and
through the haze of your memory the only thing you
will know for sure is what happened to your heart
all those years ago.
Very few people go through life unscathed - only
the LUCKY ONES amongst us. Love is a bumpy
ride. Most of us have to endure a few scratches
and scrapes along the way, a couple of bruises, a
fracture or two, and then that final rite of passage
into adulthood - the broken heart. Pat yourself on
the back; you are now in the club. You never
wanted to sign up, I'm sure, but you're here for
life. 'Til death us do part, baby.
Get over it!
--author unknown--
AMEN!!!
*di ka ba naglakas-loob noong Sabado??? akala ko pa naman ...:D
mare ... nag post ako sa blog ko dahil na inspire ako sa article mo .. first ever post ko na galing sa puso ko na super emote ako ng fatale ... *sigh* ... hang-over pa rin ako sa pag emote ... hahahha
Yup! Tama si Melai kaya wag mo delete yung mga post mo para masabi mo na totoo pala.
Darating din ang para syo kahit di mo sya hanapin.
ang dami namang BAKIT dito!
ako rin may tanong sayo. Bakit di mo pa tapusin yan, ikaw lang magkakasakit nyan!
cheer up, malay mo isa palang blogger ang naghihintay para syo... hehehe
nung isang araw lang. naisip ko na talagang matalino talaga si Derek (Lord). sa sobrang katalinuhan nya, nabigyan nya ng ibat-ibang problema este pagsubok ang mga nilikha nya.
sabi sa isang txt msg.
kinausap ko si God
sabi ko sakanya...
"bakit di mo ibigay sa bawat tao ang karapat dapat nilang mahalin at karapat dapat din nilang mahalin para si kami mahirapan?"
ang sagot nya,,,
"o sige, ikaw na Diyos!"
ehehe... nakakaloka. tama nga naman. sya lang ang nakakaalam ng karapat dapat... hayz... buhay.
love you Derek!
parte talaga siguro ng buhay yan, otherwise wala ng challenge ang buhay. siguro kung nagkamali tayo sa pagpili ng tao na di pala para sa atin, eh isipin nalang natin na may lesson tayong natutunan para sa susunod ay mas mahusay tayo sa pagpili ng makakasama natin :)
'But if I shall love others, how can I be sure that they in return will love me?' - Caine
'Do you seek love or barter?' - Master Po
'. . . if I love others and they do not love me, I shall feel great pain.' - Caine
'That is what you risk. . . . Great pain or great joy.' - Master Po
ganon tlga buhay, nasagot mo din naman lahat ng tanong mo sa dulo ng post mo.
Love is all about risk. If you give your heart to someone else - as most of us do at one time or another - it is theirs to do with as they wish. You now have absolutely no control over it, and whether it remains intact is up to them. to quote j'lois.
This part I dislike about this thing. You give them power, unknowingly, to hurt you.
And the first opportune time they get, ginagamit nila iyon.
Sometimes they say ayaw ka nilang saktan. And yet there they go. Iiwan ka rin nila, in the end.
Sabi ko noon -- and this holds true (to me at least) today -- Nobody stays. Not family, not friends. Lovers, they would come and go.
The earlier you realize this, the better off you'll be.
But then again, this is still the emo me talking. April's not yet over, y'know.
*smile
If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.
to quote kadyo naman.
'tol, pwede pahiram nitong mahaba-haba mong comment sa post nato..?
ibo-blog ko rin ha? i'll credit you, of course.
some points struck me in this comment kasi, and i want to save the feeling forever.
somehow it's helping me make one decision of late. thank you, thank you, in advance.
lojik, salamat rin ha?
hahah..erik namiss kita...di ko alam how can i reach... pero iginagalang ko ang pag iwan mo sa blog mo...
gusto ko nga rin comment ni kadyo.. ipopost ko rin un sa friendster blog ko! heheh
oh no. if i had my way nga, ipo-post ko na iyung puso series. kaso i have a lot of things to write (commissioned, may bayad).
abangan mo. in May.
in time. huwag ka mainip. good things come to those who wait. (daw).
meanwhile. another round of beaches muna ako.
*smile.
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